The 6 Photos Every Man Needs on His Dating Profile
Updated: 4 days ago
The best dating profile for men has six photos: two strong portraits, one full-body shot, one social photo and two lifestyle photos. Whatever app you use, aim for at least four so she can see both your appearance and your lifestyle.
Start strong, end strong, and only use photos that are genuinely great.
Why six photos?
Hinge, the app I recommend if it's popular where you live, gives you six photo slots. On any app, have at least four photos to show enough of your lifestyle and appearance. Some can overlap, so your full-body shot might also be a lifestyle photo.
The best dating profile photos for men
Two portraits. Your best portrait is your most important photo and goes first; your second portrait goes last, so you start and finish strong. It should look professional but natural.
One full-body shot. Show your body type honestly. It can double as a social or lifestyle photo.
One social photo. Ideally a mix of men and attractive women, everyone smiling and having a good time, with you easy to spot and ideally in the foreground.
Two lifestyle photos. Show your hobbies and personality, such as sport, a musical instrument or travel. Even better if they give her something to comment on, and you still need to look good in them.
Getting the social and lifestyle photos right
Only men can feel like a bro photo, and only you with women can feel like you're trying too hard. Avoid photos with women who aren't very attractive, as they lower your perceived value. No suitable group shot yet? Next time you're out with friends, take one. You only need one great photo.
Photos with a dog or pet are a bit of a cliché, but they still work. If you're a funny person, one goofy photo is fine. Just don't make them all funny.
Variety, smiles and photo order
Avoid repeating the same location or outfit.
Mix portraits with wider shots.
Look cool but friendly: include a genuine smile or laugh in some photos.
Put your two strongest photos first and second, and end with a great portrait.
Quality beats quantity
You only look as good as your worst photo. If the choice is fewer photos that are all great or more photos with some weak ones, go with fewer. The quality of your photos largely decides how well you do on online dating. Also make sure you're not using any of the dating profile photos that cost you matches.
Common questions
How many photos should a man have on his dating profile?
Six is ideal on Hinge. On any app, use at least four so women can see both your appearance and your lifestyle.
What should my first dating profile photo be?
Your best portrait. It is your most important photo and should look professional but natural.
Is it better to have fewer dating profile photos?
If the alternative is including weak photos, yes. You only look as good as your worst photo.
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